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I Don’t Want to Be HERE!  May 1, 2012  How many times have I heard folks voice this most profound complaint about having been born in their healing session?  I’ll just say tons of times! Then during the session, the story usually reveals that these people are mighty conscious folks and often remember trying their best to resist falling into the human baby body waiting for them.  Even though they have greatly earned this amazing privilege over so many lifetimes, they still remember how very difficult other lifetimes have been—full of all kinds of terrors such as being murdered, tortured, raped, lost and so much more.  They also usually have a either a glimmer or a full-on familiarity with the beauty of the Light that is deeply experienced between lifetimes.  So, who would want to leave that peace for the painful chaos of acting out in yet another body, for yet another lifetime of disconnect and profound loss?  You get my point, eh? Well, the very first thing to understand is that it is actually your Soul, your own God Self that puts together your next lifetime’s hand of “karma cards” that you will play. That is, it appears that our “everyday self,” our thinking and judging mind doesn’t get to choose the karmic circumstances that we find ourselves in, such as our parents, our location on the planet, the things that “happen to us,” etc.  But rather we—as our everyday selves have total free will on how we play this “game” of a lifetime. Moves in this Game of Life. When our Souls, our True Selves, that “portion” of the Infinite that chooses to come into the “forgetting” of Who It is to join in “8.4 million lifetimes, half in water” (Yogi Bhajan’s words), it chooses this grand cycle of evolution—first the forgetting phases where so many karmas and much pain get stored up.  Read more about karma at www.SoulAnswer.com/karma.html . Then we begin the “remembering” phase of our evolution back to full, total, Conscious Union with our real Infinite Self.  That part we call the spiritual path.  Here is where we “pay our karmas,” that is balance our account in the Akashic Records.  If I did something to somebody, then it gets done to me.  The debt is paid—whether we call it good or bad, the actions are equaled out, as long as we go through those karmic situations with neutrality and not create yet more karmas from our reactions!  Oh, yeah. Now, here is the best.  Those very difficult resurgences of pain and loss that flare up in our lives, and which we dread facing are actually the very things that Soul ordered up for us when choosing our karma cards.  These are the energetic raw materials that are the basis of our own alchemic processes.  That is in healing—forgiving and evaporating that pain and confusion of those habitual triggered difficulties, we actually turn around those experiences so that they benefit us and those around us.  When healing occurs, those energetic programs realign themselves to provide complete, although perhaps unconscious access to all those crummy experiences in a way that no longer brings our own pain to the surface because it has been freed up.  But rather we naturally have the ability to understand and help heal similar challenges in others.  Remember your Diamond Mind?  Coal to diamonds by the process of great heat, pressure and time!  www.SoulAnswer.com/sadhana.html . Now, as one heals, they clear the way to actually connect with their Soul, their True Self.  It is this full and free connection that we all long for.  There is actually a kind of hunger embedded in us to draw us to re-unite.  When we just move over to fully embodying Soul, allowing ourselves to rest in that very real vibrational frequency, this is the beginning of the connection that we have yearned for, pined for over centuries. When in this state, problems fade, courage is not a question because fears have melted, you feel hugged, cared for and profoundly loved and supported.  This is why we came HERE!  That is to move into this next phase of remembering, of knowing Who we are, and embodying the very real experience of Soul!  To learn to do this, please go to www.SoulAnswer.com/soul.html .  This is THE CONNECTION! Relish it!  As you do this process, and as it becomes the way that you live your life, Soul will push you more and more into your greatness, at the speed that you heal your difficulties.  So, now call those challenges “opportunities” to progress on your path to becoming Who you truly are. And then, please take this great energy of Soul and send it down your body, right down into the very consciousness of Divine Mother, Mother Earth, Adi Shakti, Primal Earth Power.  As people do this, they report that their experience of Soul becomes stronger, more rooted, more apparent.  This is the Union of Heaven and Earth right there in your own body and mind!  Life becomes simpler as you rely on this state of being to lead you and feed you, no matter what karmas you may be facing. Now, here is the kicker.  I asked the Soul of one lovely lady who has a very genuine ability to listen to her Divine Soul why it chose to come to Earth—that is limited time, space and awareness time after time.  The most amazing answer was that the Infinite Self wants to go through all of that forgetting so that in the end of this most grand cycle of births and deaths, in the end the limited consciousness will come again into the most full Union with the Infinity.  And that event, that experience, my friends is so powerful and magnificent that the Soul craves that splendid re-union to the extent that it not only goes through one full round of the karmic cycle, but it does it over and over again.  Imagine! When I asked about all the pain, her Soul—which has the voice of everyone’s Soul said that the Re-Union was totally worth it all.  But the fact is that we need to go through all these human lives to consciously make our way back to Infinite remembering—with Soul’s guidance, of course. Now, isn’t this a most glorious trip that we are having here on Earth?  We are getting near our destination, you know.  So, let’s just trust that being HERE is what we really and truly do want because the inevitable “end point” is all that there is in the Universe.  Let’s really make the very best of every opportunity to move forward with the greatest ease, love and enthusiasm! Lots of Love, Siri-Gian Copyright Siri-Gian Khalsa, www.SoulAnswer.com , 2012 You have permission to reproduce this article in print or online as long as you keep this copyright large and readable.

Was Someone Mean To You? January 10, 2011     Was someone mean to you today?  How did you handle it? In these speeded up times, we seem to be getting hit with all that “old stuff” that hasn’t been dealt with yet.  So, now let’s deal!  What an opportunity for growth, eh? Now, what was your reaction when someone was mean to you?  Dumfounded, hurt, angry, lash back, slink away to lick your wounds?  Did you allow the interaction to reinforce your identity as a victim by taking the affront personally? So, the first thing in such a situation is not to injure yourself.  DO NOT INJURE YOURSELF BY GOING INTO VICTIM MODE!  Instead, understand that in this Aquarian Age, Yogi Bhajan told us that people will be going crazy.  This means crazy to every degree, and on all levels, and this could even refer to US!   So, take every affront as a most tremendous opportunity to practice your warrior training.  Train both “in battle,” meaning in the situation as well as constantly in the “dojo” of your mind when you are not being attacked.  Train yourself with the dedication and strength of a warrior so that when the attack comes, your instantaneous response is automatic.  You snap into the laser focus and practiced powerful presence of a warrior of Spirit. This is truly a profound martial art of Consciousness. Now I know that this takes a lot of dedicated training to be able to do this in the absolute second, just as any martial art does, so you might as well get started right away.    Therefore, in the instant: 1.       In a flash, park your own victim feelings—anger, hurt, judgment, self-defeat, fighting back, etc.  Nothing will throw you off more than indulging your own self-destructive emotional habits of being victimized, fighting back, etc. 2.       Ground your energy into Mother Earth, and expand yourself immediately—this is the warrior’s stance, and this is what keeps you balanced and rooted in the power of your Presence.  Do your best to relax while still being attentive and aware. 3.       Breathe Heart Breath--that is you powerfully move this healing energy though both of you to loosen and raise the very real energy of the situation out of being stuck in the lower registers of “head butting” to a “place” where surprising changes for the better can happen.  Remember this “battle relationship” is lethal business that is being raised to the powerful higher dimensions of freedom. 4.       Use a mantra, call on Guru Ram Das, Baba Siri Chand and/or Yogi Bhajan.  Their incredible influence is your “army at your back” that can open the way and take charge through you as you “hold the space.” 5.       Set yourself in a purely neutral state.  This is a fully focused energetic state that is based in profound neutrality—never numbness.  Neutral space is CLEAR SPACE where you can “hear, feel, see” the True way of dealing with the situation for everyone’s highest good.  Don’t worry if your nerves are playing havoc with your body.  Just mentally and energetically hold the neutral, clear state as best you can.  The challenge is that as you are doing this, you never quite know where you are going.  OK!  Just stick with what is flowing through you at every second. 6.       Intensely listen with the same “apparatus” that you use when engaged in intuition.  It is a sensation of “big ears” or hugely increased awareness where you can “hear, feel, see, etc.” what is truly happening as well as your receiving guidance in the second on just how to respond--way beyond the obvious.  In this condition, you cannot hold onto any preconceived notion of how to act.  Instead, listen to the words flowing out of your mouth and the tone in which they are delivered.  In this “place” of intuitive response, you cannot cling to any kind of old judgment based on how things “should” be going.  You are stripped of all guile, leading you to express the power of the Present in unforeseen ways.  7.       Don’t forget that you are listening to and responding to the words of your “opponent” as well in this whole mix.  Quite a multi-dimensional blend in the moment.  But as you gain practice, this flow will come naturally. 8.       Be profoundly grateful for the encounter!  After all, the other person is your “worthy opponent.”  How else could you possibly engage in this extremely potent training to be totally present in your Soul—no matter what?   Then before the encounter, as part of your daily training or after it, spend time in a meditative state communicating with your Divine Soul, or any of those Divine Personages—Guru Ram Das, Baba Siri Chand or Yogi Bhajan, asking them to understand how you can change yourself to better handle these kinds of situations.   I assure you that you will get the most incredible feedback!  Let your “everyday self” (your mind, emotions, cultural training, preconceived ideas and so on) ask the questions.  Then allow your Divine Guidance show you the Truth and how to heal yourself, how to clear yourself, how to extend the Power of the Present into every situation that comes your way.  Use all of your Kundalini Yoga tools to move through any blocks!   Let this be your “post mortum” method to dissect the situation so that you can understand how to handle it from this higher level so much better in the future.  Sadhana is a great time to do this.   Churning over that “he said, she said” blaming stuff in your mind just sweeps you away to continued stupidity.  Don’t be a victim to it.  Rather, listen to your most profound Teachers within, and with great purpose and commitment, learn from Them and heal.  This is the only way that will really work for us as we progress more and more into this Aquarian Dimension.  Then move on without carrying a grudge or animosity for anyone—only heart breath for healing on all sides, and pure gratitude for your growth.   Then it would be such a tremendous help to all the rest of us if you would please post your experiences with this training to our Soul Answer Tribe Facebook page so that we can understand your path of trials and surprising results with this.  This is how we learn and support one another!  Please go to www.Facebook.com/groups/soulanswer to share.    Thanks so much, Dear Warriors of the Spirit.  We are enthusiastically looking forward to meeting you there in our cozy, online group—our place of shared hearts and Souls.   Lots of Love, Siri-Gian Kaur   Copyright Siri-Gian Khalsa, www.SoulAnswer.com, 2012 You have permission to reproduce this article in print or online if you keep this copyright information large and readable. 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