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100% Responsibility! September 10, 2019 & May 31, 2016 What if you were to take 100% responsibility for not only everything that is happening in your life
right now, but also the effect on you from everything that is happening in the world? So, here’s the idea: Our karmas—our challenges are perfect for us. That
means that due to our past lives, traumas and boons, whatever is affecting us in our world at this moment is a product that
provides us with whatever situations, emotions, concepts, etc. that we need to clear, heal and transform! Nothing is
outside of this. All of our experiences over eons have been imprinted in our sub-conscious whose programming actually
runs our thoughts, emotions and consequently our lives if we let it. All that jams up our connection and communication
with Soul and bringing pain! As a pure Soul, we not only chose
our parents and family, our geographic locations, and direct experiences, but we also chose the “world” around
us. Every incident that we encounter, either personally or by hearing about it, which includes from the TV news, we
take on that responsibility—not with guilt or as a burden, but to clear and heal the vibes of it within our own sub-consciousness.
Realize that we would not be experiencing this thing, emotion or concept if we didn’t literally have a hand in its original
creation from our history of creative vibes from this lifetime and others. So, to heal those locked-up, stuck vibes—those
magnetic holding patterns that create that situation we can neutralize those holding patterns so the situation can be released
to the All in All Consciousness who heals the whole schlemiel. As we do that, the “GOD” is then freed
up to bring that situation as well as our sub-conscious back into loving, neutral equilibrium. You might read this concept over again a few times to better grasp it. It
is what we have been talking about for years and years. We have seen this freeing and healing process work with Heart
Breath www.SoulAnswer.com/heart_breath.html . But now, I am so happy to share another incredible practice that does the same kind of clearing. That is Ho’oponopono.
This is an ancient Hawaiian way of life for you to bring clearing and integrity
to your world. In my opinion, it is the way of the spiritual warrior as well as the Bodhisattvas. And frankly it brings
happiness and peace to you, to your family and friends, to your ancestors and descendants, as well as to our whole world.
Imagine such potency! And it is so simple plus being totally free! It is just up to you to do it.
All this has come to the world’s attention by the work of Dr. Hew Len
of Hawaii. As a doctor at a Hawaii State Hospital for the criminally insane, he never had an interview with a patient—therapeutic
or otherwise Instead, he would review the records of each patient. Then as he felt the emotional and tragic difficulties
of that patient within his own psyche as his own (100% responsibility), he would then use this Ho’oponopono process
to actually clear those emotions and thoughts within his own subconscious. This does not mean taking on the other person’s
pain, but actually clearing that same pain from deep within himself. Over the course of a few years, the stress on the staff lifted, and the patients improved to the extent that they
were released one by one from the hospital. Finally, with no more patients to care for, that hospital shut down.
This is documented and is not an urban legend! To meet Dr. Hew Len on YouTube, please click here. And there are many videos on that page from which you can increase your understanding. Now this process is just too simple! Here it is. You can say these words to your Self—your
Soul to clear and clean your subconscious mind with every incident, and/or just continue incessantly as you do with a mantra,
and as you do with Heart Breath. These lines are in no particular order, and they are addressed to the God within you,
which extends to both this incident along with all of God’s creation in general. “I am sorry. Please forgive
me. I love you. Thank you.” Or you may simply shorten this
entirely to “I love you.” Now, I also add “Wahe
Guru” to it as well to truly raise the energy to the Divinity within. You can click here to get the song and words of Ho’oponopono. And the amazing thing is that although it would be great to feel this
process, you don’t have to. Just keep up with it. It
is wonderful for me to see Yogi Bhajan’s teachings expressed in different words! Here are some of them.
The words on the left are Dr. Hew Len’s and the ones on the right are Yogi Bhajan’s equivalent.
Data—Subconscious Trance Inspiration—Intuition Intellect—Mind
(lies) Spirit—Soul (Truth) Zero Limits—Shuniya, Zero Point, Neutral, Presence of Soul Easy—Sahej Hawaii—Wahe
Guru 100% Responsibility—“If you can’t see
God in all, you can’t see God at all” I highly suggest that you watch all the videos from a course given on Maui by Dr. Hew Len and Dr. Joe Vitale.
Click here for the first one. And now, what I love to do is to
recite the Ho’oponopono words as I slowly exhale on a long Heart Breath. Now you’ve got two incredible healing
tools working together! Please try this for yourself. If you
are really serious about your want for your own happiness and for World Peace, here is your portal. It is the way to
open to the best, unimpeded relationship with Soul so that you may take all the clues for direction in your life from the
Source! What greater privilege and freedom could there ever be than doing God’s will as the true action of your
Life! Lots of Love, Siri-Gian
Copyright:
Siri-Gian Kaur Khalsa, 2016.
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Boundaries Create Kindness! #2 August 11, 2015 & June 23, 2009 Personal "boundaries" may seem like a terrible thing to embody--perhaps
bringing up images of the razor wire topped Berlin wall on a personal level--of people who never, ever let love in or out;
not allowing full heart and its expression to flow between themselves and others.
That lack of flow,
that separation among people can arise from those withering habits that were originally established between parent and child,
or were created in other very treacherous lifetimes. Then they can be re-triggered as pain, remorse, feelings of loss
and abandonment. They can become our own personal iron curtain of separation.
So at first glance,
personal boundaries may seem to embody that old Piscean solitary territory that we so desperately are trying to crawl out
of to live the promise of our outrageous Aquarian dream of full, open heart and Soul connectedness on all levels--no matter
what! The dream is to join together as one fully conscious, fully loving, mutually supporting organism where we all
are fully included and no one is separate or left out for any reason.
But I have to tell you that we are
all made of such wonderful human intricacies and complexities! And living from that beautiful open heart is more of
a journey than a done deal. Remember, we are still very much pioneers in manifesting this Aquarian dream, and each moves
at their own pace. So, please do your best to not judge anyone in this regard. That only creates more separation!
Rather cherish each one for their Being Here Now!
NO BOUNDARIES?
Now, having no boundaries--meaning you allow anyone
in any way to take charge of you; to say or do what they will to you without restrictions; to take over your life in exchange
for their promise of money, love, support, fulfillment of ideals, intimidation, fear of punishment or abandonment, etc. is
an open invitation to anyone to victimize you. If you don't have ground rules about how you are to be treated with dignity,
fairness, love, concern, and so on--you, yourself put out the neon sign that says, "Come beat me up," "Come
take what I have and leave me less for it," "Please come exploit my sheer lack of self worth."
BUT YOU ARE GOD!
You are sacred! Are you willing to sell God so short?
In
this case, a boundary is a personal set of rules that one makes--consciously or unconsciously that guards your integrity as
a full human. That is you as the expression, the purveyor, the impersonator of the God Who is you in this everyday package.
So, to invite slander, ill will, manipulation, abuse, being dumped on, being stolen from, etc. as you can see, certainly doesn't
protect the expansion of this extraordinary God! You might think of it this way--to protect God, protect you.
This is real Self-respect!
"But the other person is me!" you might retort. Oh, yes that is
true! But together in that condition of victim/victimizer in all its levels or potencies, you set up a really unbalanced
game that certainly doesn't promote sharing the greatest and most open fullness of heart connectedness, do you? Au contraire!
And accepting another's abuse simply because you don't want to hurt their feelings by stopping it is really upside down!
WHAT ARE YOUR BOUNDARIES?
Each one
of us has our own very peculiar and extraordinary conditions and progress along this path to the glory of pure open heartedness.
So, each of us needs to establish different boundaries that are tailor-made just for us, and we need to establish the appropriate
level of enforcement for each of these boundaries.
These boundaries protect us and our integrity, keep us
safe especially as we consciously heal our pains, difficulties and ways we relate to ourselves and others. Without this
graduated process, we can so easily get ourselves totally tangled up worse than ever in our attempt to fly on the wings of
pure openness.
For instance: A woman, who in her idealistic endeavor to become no-holds-barred
open and loving allows a manipulative creep who masquerades as a teacher of Truth to take control of her in every way.
This isn't open hearted love; it's a calamity of self-destruction!
Or: A sensitive fellow allows others
to make him the butt of jokes so that he can remain in their circle of "friends." Although they actually hurt
him, he just does his best to slough it off to preserve his connection with the group in any compromised way that he can.
Woops! Where's the love?
Can you extrapolate these examples to your own circumstances?
TRANSFORM TO SELF LOVE!
Now the question is, how can I
make a personal boundary without becoming a shut-off reactive bitch; without coming off as scared, wimpy, "Hulk-like"
angry, self-righteous, or hoity-toity, which would just add more mileage to my cycle of separation and pain? Well
this is certainly a matter of self-discovery, awareness and practice--generally called "the path!" So, let's
start with a few simple guidelines.
First start by loving yourself! You--as the God you are, are the
greatest Lover in the Universe!! If you can't love yourself, it can be really hard for your open-hearted love to really
flow--that is both in giving and receiving!
So, this is where the healing process starts. Drop
guilt.
Then once you let your Self know that loving yourself is definitely your top priority, and
that you will do whatever it takes to make confident, fearless, fully grounded Self-love happen, that intention unlocks the
Universe's floodgates to seed all kinds of wonderful remedies along your path. Just be open to them, because some of
them might actually be yet more opportunities to exercise your boundaries! Yikes!
That transformation
to pure Self/self love is based in solving those past hurts that spring from our damaged subconscious. Those old voices
can wrongly informs us that we are not worthy of love, that being open causes painful backlashes, that nobody could ever love
me because they never have, that if I stand up for myself everyone will run away. All those perpetually repeating subconscious
flare-ups devour us in their anti-truth.
So in
my experience, there is nothing like a healthy commitment to sadhana (powerful daily spiritual practice) to bring about self
healing. Take a look at this page www.SoulAnswer.com/kriyas.html to find something that might remedy your particular situation and practice
it for at least 40 days straight. That's time to change a habit.
ACTIVATING YOUR BOUNDARIES
Next, when something happens that you feel is compromising the integrity of Who you are, that is invading your
love of Self--which is literally crossing your just boundaries, simply inhale to begin long, deep breathing and LOVE that
other person--not for the crumminess that they are inflicting, but neutrally love their Being, their Soul! And at the
same time, LOVE YOURSELF!
Yes, loving the other person as well as yourself gives you amazing power in the
situation and keeps you from reverting to your old subconscious destructive habits. Hold steady in your breath.
Doing Heart Breath will ease your reaction as well as revolutionize the energetic exchange between you. And yes, it
does work miraculously!
Then let your inner voice of Soul become really strong to guide you well in your
response. For instance, either on the spot or later, perhaps in private you can ask that other person to not act that
way towards you, but be sure to not resort to manipulation yourself. Or in the moment, it might take a quick verbal
rap on the knuckles, or even a sharp punch if that is appropriate!
No blaming though, no recrimination,
no getting back at them or pointing out their foibles. Just pure, down-to-earth Truth. And don't give excuses,
and don't provide personal information that can be exploited later, such as "I didn't have the money." "I
was too tired." "I felt overburdened!"
Instead, you can say things like, "Stop
now!" "Don't talk to me like that." "Excuse me, gotta go." "Ler's talk about this
later." "How can we solve this?" And hold firm!
That's how you protect yourself
and educate them. And if your protective response isn't "perfect," just forgive yourself and be happy that
you did what you could.
Be consistent in your responses over time--not letting those folks get away
with stepping on you one time, then reacting the next time. Then if your aggressor would rather part ways rather than
adapt to your boundaries of self-love, then so be it! You are better off either way. As you deeply forgive what
they have done, your "bungee cord" to that hurt and that person is dissolved. But forgiving doesn't mean that
what they did is OK. It only means that you cut the cord so that you can take your own power back.
Now,
I have found that some folks actually go into an "attack trance!" What they are attacking you for has no base
in fact. They are lost in a fictional land and you are their target. Or someone may be taking power over you to
distract you from seeing that the problem is actually with them! So, especially in these case, jump out of victim mode
really quick so that you can deal with the truth of the situation!
DON'T INAVERTENTLY BECOME
THE VICTIMIZER YOURSELF!
Now, it bears saying, please don't
invade other people's boundaries as well, no matter what you think about them. That can be difficult if they use lash
out to mark their territory. But if you relax, breathe and stay in the presence of your Soul, I guarantee that the solution
of how to deal with these difficult folks will come to you in creative ways that are good for both of you. Just don't
have any expectations about what that might be. Instead give your Soul free, creative reign on the solution and then
stay centered while you carry it out. What an Adventure!
If you keep this up this whole process over
time, your life honestly will change for the better, including the magical appearance of folks who do respect your boundaries
of self-love--guaranteed. And rather than getting blown away by reacting to those same old programs, you will most likely
not even notice that you are in those kinds of situations anymore because you are handling them so naturally. Then you
will probably regard the other person with compassion for their shortcomings and pain, and you will find that you have the
wisdom and ability to help heal them as well as yourself! Yeh!
YOU'LL DO GREAT!
It takes courage to love yourself to the point that you can stand for Who you are!
But how else are you going to insure that your God within, the Real You in healthy tandem with the precious everyday self
of you can truly handle that amazingly powerful flow of love from and to your own heart? Here's where the joy is!
That you can be in that free, all natural and powerful open flow of love in its totality is actually the intrinsic promise
of being human! So, why not grab it NOW?
Lots of
Love,
Siri-Gian
You have my permission to copy this article to another site or blog as long as you put in this copyright
and website information. Copyright 2009 & 2015, Siri-Gian Khalsa, www.SoulAnswer.com
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Happily Ever After? What
a Crock! June 16, 2015 and March 30, 2010 #5 It
seems that is what we all expect. Just find that perfect mate, get that great job, get rid of that pesky boss, and on
and on. But somehow, even when those things do happen, pretty soon we are right back on the road looking for the next
thing that will give us “Happily Ever After!” Yikes! What’s going here? From little guys, we get read fairy tales that end with that phrase. We’re trained by our very culture.
Very subtly advertising leads us to believe that paradigm. Over and over again, we are looking for the elixir, the magic
key, the silver bullet to pure and absolute happiness all the time. That quest actually seems to be a built in human
yearning. But I have a secret for you, my Dears! The Pursuit
of Happiness can be a wily endeavor. Here are a few basics. 1.
If you are trying to find something to cover your insecurities, that will backfire 100%. For example, some of these
“happily ever after” things that you want might be a loving husband to take care of you in every way; or the perfect
job where you are well -paid, looked up to, fulfilled, not stressed and so on. But something always comes up—such
as your insecurity raising its revolting head to really mess things up and throw you back into the same old difficulties that
you have been carrying for ages. No escape!
For instance, no matter what your husband does for you,
you still don’t feel loved, primarily because if you don’t love yourself, you can’t receive love even if
great loads of love are pouring over you. Or in that great job, it appears that people pick fights with you, although
the real reason may actually be that you are hypersensitive because you may not feel totally secure in yourself, and therefore
subtly give off signals for others to challenge you. Think about it! The next problem is that if you are actually trying to avoid your fears and insecurities through the Law of Attraction
by “believing unquestioningly” that your intended “happily ever after” stuff will alleviate your troubles,
then watch out! Actually the opposite will happen. Unless you heal those insecurities and fears, they will become
the attracting force that in fact draws more of the same—no matter how hard you try to sublimate those squirmy pests
of insecurity and fear. So, when you are projecting for one thing but apparently the opposite manifests, then you can
really get confused! That is—no loving husband, no great job, cranky boss gets worse, and so on. So be on
the alert! 2. If on the other hand, you most attentively
work on healing your insecurities and fears at every turn, you will be shedding that habitual energetic blocking material
that makes your life so miserable. Your mind can finally relax and your body can stop pumping those stress hormones.
Then you will miraculously open the gates a bit wider to your own intrinsic happiness that naturally flows from within you,
rather than trying to impossibly get happiness from outside of you. To
do this, you have to become your very best detective! Watch very carefully for any sign that you are unhappy, insecure,
confused, fearful, etc. Be sure to arrest that feeling immediately, and then hold it while you work on it. The best ways that I know how to do this are our incredible practices (kiryas and
meditations), and deep sadhana—daily spiritual practice. As you know my very most favorite and effective is the
Gobinday, Mukunday… mantra. But we have such a huge wealth of uhappiness neutralizers! Choose something
and hang onto it for dear life. Do Heart Breath religiously!
Not only will it calmly move those obsessive machinations out of your heart, body and mind, but it will let you relax into
coziness, as well as actually change all those people and events around you. Magic! Try it all the time—when
actually facing the down and dirty “creepies,” when driving, meditating, washing the dishes, communicating with
your lover or your boss—anytime. Then as you are able
to relax into neutrality, you can actually jump on the “phone” with your own dear Soul! Get that bottomless
love and support that you need to let go of the nasty stuff. Then get outrageous wisdom and the best guidance just for
you, in your own very best interest to move on to actually being happy. What Soul says may be surprising, but test it,
follow it to see if it works over time. Trust! Yow! Trust and verify! It’s really quite
an amazing and rewarding pursuit, you know. And it is all there waiting for you! The Pursuit of Happiness actually seems to be a path, an adventure, creating greater and greater capacities for happiness
at every challenge that is dealt with well along the way. So, don’t let those apparent difficulties prevaricate
against you, telling you that again you are a victim of unhappiness. Instead, stand tall and yell, “Yay!
Yet another chance to slough off old insecurities and fears, and open to new ideas, new fulfilling ways of acting at every
turn. Just BEING happy, no matter is happening on the outside.” That is claiming Truth, dear One. And your real, reliable happiness dwells profoundly within your own experience
of Truth. Oh, yeah! That is your success and that is your path to unfolding happiness at every moment. You
can do it, honestly! Lots of Love, Siri-Gian Kaur Copyright Siri-Gian Khalsa, SoulAnswer.com, 2010. You may paste this article on another website or blog, or reprint it as long as you include the
copyright information above.
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Difficult or Delicious? October 13, 2015 and June 28, 2011
DHARMA—Your Transport to Peaceful Ease! Imagine! There is a rich and cohesive order to the Universe that beams down to our own “little”
Earth! Have you watched as situations that might normally
seem disruptive produce a symphony of change that actually creates progress in ways that are much more effective than you
could have planned? Have you seen synchronicities quietly appear like a train
right on schedule to hook you up with that perfect person, place or thing—just out of nowhere? Have
you ever felt so high, leading with your heart, connecting naturally, feeling so simple, so pure, and so free—without
hesitation, drawbacks, second guesses or fear? In that
condition, you are way beyond courage and trust, you are just flowing in this all pervasive Light energy—kind of like
this incredibly pure light here in New Mexico, but there is a powerful breezy feeling to it, and it incorporates pure functionality.
In this condition, you just feel or intend what needs to be done, or what would be good
to manifest and without giving it too much more thought, it comes about, it arrives like gifts and connection on invisible
hands. In this state, you feel the unending LOVE that
just pours out of you, as the right ideas and simple wisdom just fall from your lips, without too much thought on your part.
You just KNOW! And you glide in “uprising spirit,” also known as “Cherdi Kala,”
a very real experience of neutral, happy contentment and awareness. There
is an incredible order—no matter what kind of disorder or destruction appears to happening on all sides, including to
yourself. But it is as though you have been beamed up to a certain place of radiance that interfaces with
all that surrounds you. It functions impeccably—usually not in any pre-set way you might expect it
to, but it has its own grand agenda, its own timing. It is just up to you to swim with it, to keep up with
it, to dance with its every creative move, to recognize the magic as it happens, to be grateful—most grateful for it!
Well, my Dears, if you have ever experienced this incredible state of being, this fully
active vibrational current of reality, then you have been in “Sukh Sahej”! Now, let me ask you a question. As that was happening or before, had you done some really good
sadhana? Were you doing your banis (effective prayers), mantras (potent sounds), Kundalini Yoga and Meditation
(exercises that open to expanded power on all levels)? Had you trained your mind to stay in pure neutral
awareness? Had you healed or transformed those mixed-up emotions so that you could sense your Soul with
your clarified emotions? So, now all of these practices that brought you to
Sukh Sahej are embodied an ecological interactive system called “Dharma”! Yes, that is right.
There are a number of dharmas, or integrated systems of practice that tap into a sort of vibrational mono-rail to take
you to Sukh Sahej. That is what a dharma is all about. It is given to us by extraordinary
Souls or Masters who have “been there, done that” to the extent that they put together an interactive system that
guarantees to move us, step by protected step to this incredible perfection of experience here on Earth. So, why not practice our chosen dharma with great diligence? As any of you may have found, actually
mixing the practices of various dharmas over time might be counterproductive because you move out of the protective integration
of energies, although it sure is fun and enlightening to experience other dharmas from time to time. There is no judgment about any one of them being better than another. It just comes down to what
suits your own consciousness, experience of lifetimes, plus your own heart and gut for those particular practices—despite
the nutsiness you might find in your fellow practitioners as they perfect their own practices. The dharma that you choose is such a gift to you, although you have actually earned it over lifetimes, and it may
take you beyond lifetimes to pure Union. Cherish it! Aren’t we lucky-ducks?
Lots of Love, Siri-Gian Kaur
To easily print
this out, please go to www.SoulAnswer.com/happiness.html Copyright Siri-Gian Khalsa, www.SoulAnswer.com , 2011 You have permission to reproduce this article in print or online as
long as you keep the copyright large and readable.
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Let Go, But Don’t Give Up! Dec. 22, 2015
& Dec. 7, 2010 #6 “You gotta be kidding, right? How can you do both at the same time?” Does
that stretch you mind way out of synch? But
here’s the deal: Do you want unlimited peace and prosperity in your life? Do you
want coziness, a feeling of contentment and happiness that underlies all that you are and do? Do you want
to be free in your own life? Do you want to give up worry, and admit yourself to your own Garden of Eden
where you can trust that all is provided for you in total perfection? “Impossible!” “Unrealistic!” you say? Well, actually I haven’t seen any other
way to approach this. So, let’s take a minute to examine just how creation works. We’ve all heard that we get what we send out for.
Actually, that is the rule of creation, you know? But what do you send out for? Do
you try to send out for a mate who will love you and support you unconditionally because you believe they will finally fill
that big hole inside you, and cover your fears about supporting yourself? Guess what? The energy flow that you produce in that honest line of inquiry is
that you have a big, endless hole and that you are afraid that you can’t be supported. That is what
you really and truly send out for, so you get more of the same! Yikes! That, in fact
that is how the God energy of creation creates! And don’t forget that what we send out for is built
within our subconscious from this life and from others, including very real experiences, conditioning, societal expectations,
and so on. When you get uptight, scared, lost, hurt and so on, if you stay in that energy, you bring yet
more upon you. LET GO TO
LET GOD! There’s
got to be a better way. But having lived in the extreme torment of those oppressive energies is when many
finally give up! We cry Uncle! No more! That is when we finally surrender
and “Let Go to Let God!” When we are truly left with nowhere to turn, that is when we drop
to our knees and finally admit there is no other place to turn but to turn it all over to the Almighty. No
matter what that Omnipotent Force has to dish out—whatever it is, we have no more fight left to try to take matters
into our own hands, or to rail against what is presented to us. There’s nothing more but to accept
what the God Force brings and deal with it, no reservations. We might even find that as we let go of our energetic and emotional holding, we also have no
alternative but to trust that the One in charge has it all figured out for us a lot better than we do, even if more poop hits
the fan! In
fact, we are changing our very, very real creative capacity as Earth-living Gods when we let go. When we
let go, we are no longer tying the creative energies that flow through us at every nano-second into tight tangles that have
caused us/created nothing but trouble so far. Instead, we release the flow of our very real Conscious creative
energy to the greater Intelligence, and Flow into the bigger picture that KNOWS what we really want after all, and that is
total Union with the All in All Who is experiencing Itself as Us here on Earth! No, that’s not too
big and obtuse to deal with. It’s the cozy core of our Prosperity! We humble ourselves to that Life Force. And
as we do, only then do we realize that we have been hitting up against our own deeply imbedded road blocks. So
now it’s time that we do what we can to neutralize their tight and controlling hold on us. You already
know the ways to relieve those energetic charges that “take you away” to your own recurring trauma.
We have tons of technology to de-magnetize/heal them. They are Kundalini Yoga, Meditation, Conscious Breath of all kinds including
Heart Breath, Banis (Sikh prayers whose sound current re-assembles those energy charges), Mantras that do the same, freely
give our tithing and serve selflessly to loosen ourselves up from holding tightly to the little territory called “mine.”
We consciously change our thinking habits from being tied in that panic, hurt, loss, depressions, etc.
to just becoming aware of our environment, being here on Earth and accepting that all is for a greater reason, and being OK
with that. You actually become grateful for what comes your way because you really know that if you handle
the situation from that Space, that Consciousness, you shall have taken a few more steps towards permanently living in your
Great Consciousness. Yes, it takes
effort to remain aware and not fall back into old habits, but wouldn’t you prefer for your mind to live in that Garden
of Eden? That is not “Pollyana,” or being in denial for sure. It is simply
relaxing and being comfortably aware in that huge “Space” where you can observe all that is happening but without
trying to control it. That’s when you allow the Infinite to flow through you. That
is when you can actually participate with the Universe by becoming flat out humble to It! That’s
when you can let go of artifice and become Real! DON’T GIVE UP! Now, that brings us to the next part called “NOT GIVING UP” meaning that once you have let go to
let God, you do not crawl in a hole and give up interacting with this life saying, “It’s no longer my life, I
gave it up, why should I care?” Oh, no! On the contrary, this is where the fun begins! Indeed,
you have given your life entirely to the Great One This is where you hold your own in that expansiveness and you flow with
it! You dance with that most wonderfully expert of all dancers, flying gracefully across the dance floor,
guided by the subtlety that you can now feel—realizing the actual Truth in what is happening on a grander—not
so obvious scale. This is where you finally feel surprising creativity, become unburdened and free, express
natural unimpeded power, kindness, fun, joy, love, satisfying acceptance of yourself—your own authentic self and others,
flowing—not fighting or being defeated. It’s all a simple, full joy. Wow! Now, in this condition you are in communication
with this All in All. This is where you listen deeply and feel Its interaction with you. This
is when you have the fun of a lifetime. This is where you can humbly agree with this Universal on receiving
any amount of money, love, goods, relationships, creativity and so on. But you do not whine and pine for
it. You humbly “put the idea out there,” that is the intention or the creative energy, you
neutrally carry out your guidance, and then neutrally watch what happens. It is such an adventure!
It is such a play and a dance. This is what you as the God was looking for when It came to Earth
as you! You’ve experienced
and learned so much with everything that has happened over lifetimes. Now, just actively relax into this
God’s play and hold the space of it Here. If you are truly doing that, you will be deeply satisfied,
every situation will serve you in ways you never thought possible, and you will enjoy the adventure! Truly!
You won’t believe how everything will work out and serve you in carrying out your activities in the most satisfying
and unexpected ways. Guaranteed! Lots
of Love, Siri-Gian Copyright
Siri-Gian Khalsa, www.SoulAnswer.com, 2010 You have permission to reproduce this on
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Why Would You Want Anything Else? August 20, 2019 & Feb. 2, 2010 #4 Integrity! Yogi Bhajan used to hammer into us that Character (or as he used to pronounce it—“correct-er”)
is the most important value that we should strive for as a human and as a spiritual Being. Over the years, I have seen that integrity is the foundation of character. That is not just that we do what
we say we will do; or that we tell the truth; or that we actually have the courage to stand for what we believe in, no matter
the consequences; or that we actually pay taxes on our cash earnings; and so on. Integrity is more like what Carlos Castaneda called “impeccable.” It is our clarified energetic foundation that allows us to receive, integrate and express the greatness that emanates
from our Souls right here in our everyday lives. Ideally, this is the non-collapsible, flawless mechanism that can deliver
Soul through our thoughts and actions. But if we give into old habits that sidetrack us from listening to our Souls,
no way we can hold our function as full “spiritual beings.” Habits such as addictions, anger, gossip, put-downs
of ourselves and others, and so on. For instance, if I am angry
and blame my anger on another person or situation, rather than taking responsibility for healing my own run-away emotion,
then I shut off my own consciousness, my energetic foundation that I need to engage my Soul so that I can fully understand
the extraordinary breadth and depth of what my Soul, my God-Self is offering to show me in that moment! I am lacking
in integrity. I have rips and tears in my operating mechanism. If I can’t muster the patience to relax into my Soul so that I can listen closely to someone that I disagree
with, that cuts my ability to get the huge picture from my Soul, and cuts my heart from flowing. I don’t have
the integrity, the character it takes to activate my God-given grace and wisdom. I can’t bring my Infinite experience
to the mundane. Integrity indicates just One fully flowing,
interconnected, seamless mechanism without those “little bugs” that throw us off track and create big train wrecks,
especially when we are moving at the greatly increased speeds of the Aquarian Age. In 17th century India, Guru Gobind Singh led a comparatively small band against the impossibly huge Mogul aggression
that sought to destroy anyone who would not convert to their religion. He trained his army to not engage in anger or
fear or defeat, but to live entirely in the purly alive moment—in the will of the Creator, in the full experience of
their Souls! They lived in the ecstasy of the moment, which is totally and purely living the Consciousness of their own Soul! Too big a concept for us nowadays, you say? Well, how about these recent
reports? “So I'm sitting in a meeting this morning,
and I was getting ticked off, everyday-self getting all itchy, and then I had an insight that Baba Siri Chand was sitting
at the meeting table, and it was so funny and reminded me not to take it so seriously and that everything is a learning experience,
an opportunity to participate with my soul and not siphon it off for just meditating. I just started grinning
and laughing inside thinking of him sitting at the table. And it helped in some other meeting I had today too.”
Kehar Kaur, Alexandria, VA And this one: “Baba Siri Chand asked me to promise him when I am getting in a funky
space to do a happy dance with him. Just to let you know, funky space was happening big time the night before and a little
on that day. The thought crossed my mind to give up. I was feeling very pulverized in my body at the time. Giving up
does not work nor is it an option. It did not work when I tried it before and will not work now. I have work to do.
That is why I am in physical form now--why I agreed to whatever I did at soul level before I was born in this lifetime. I
do the happy dance with him. In public view sometimes it just looks like I am jumping up and down. The blood flowing and chemicals
released during that is awesome. Movement of my body helps clears toxins accumulated in my body from my thoughts, food, actions
and poor habits, etc. It is all good. I am just starting to get it. We all receive so much guidance and love. I had to learn
to believe that I am truly this immense beautiful being of golden light and love. It sure helped me when bsc showed me. So
very cool how we are all pieces of the same big puzzle and how working together everyone can create such wonderful beautiful
things. It just takes coming from the heart and not the limited filtering of our everyday self. There is no power greater
than unconditional love which to me is this golden light.” Atma Karam Kaur, Norfolk, VA So, Dear Ones, integrity is the ability to hold and express the Consciousness that
seeks to flow through us all the time! It takes attention, personal responsibility, commitment, and plain hard work
to develop it. But why would you want anything else for yourself? You have my permission to post this article on any other site as long as these words go
with it: Copyright, Siri-Gian Khalsa, SoulAnswer.com, 2010.
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GET HAPPY! Make the "SOUL MOVE!" #1 June 4, 2019 & December 9, 2008
What if you could be happy,
satisfied, fulfilled, content, fearless and on, and on with just a simple move? That “move” has been a secret over eons of human history. It was promised
only to those who served their master for decades, or who offered huge sums of wealth!
But guess what?
I am going to whisper it to you right now! Ready?
This is it: Especially when you are
feeling down, confused, forgotten, lost, overburdened, controlling, and any other way that you would like to pop out of, just
do the “Soul Move.” That is CONSCIOUSLY MOVE OVER TO BEING WITH YOUR SOUL! No
kidding! And how hard you make it is up to you--really up to you!
How to
do the SOUL MOVE: If you are feeling lonely, just open up to feel your loving Soul. If you
are feeling fearful, just leave all your problems up to your Soul to take care of and trust It. Soul has Its own way
of resolving your life if you just stay with It and trust It! So, instead of demanding some resolution on your terms,
just breathe yourself into this neutral “space.” Be present with It and enjoy It! Let the crap go, so you
can thrive, love and let yourself be loved!
I know, this is just too simple and New Age hair-brained
to believe. This is just some “Pollyanna” method of denial or self-deception, you say.
After all, you have your feet on the ground and only believe in the reality of what you experience.
But believe
it or not, this space of total neutrality and humility to allow the great Force and love to flow through you is actually experiencing
your own special and very unique God Self! And being in this expanded energetic condition is being in sync with the
Conscious Creative Force that actually does the connecting and creating of our world! Flowing with this
intimate, subtle, all-powerful energetic field is what brings all to you, dear Ones!
But
if you stay in your condition of hurt, overwhelm, stress, heartache, etc., your own creative energy actually calls out to
remain in that blocked condition and to give you confirmation on every level that this your REALITY. Yikes! That
hurts!
One caveat. If when you try to do this SOUL MOVE, emotional
crocodiles reach up to grab your feet and pull you under, please, oh please do not feel that you are not up to par, or
get guilty because this SOUL MOVE seems to fall from your grasp! Instead, understand that this is the time to become
very aware that very strong emotional knots are tying you up. Then do all that you can to heal them, using our sacred
technologies, and if need be get professional help to walk you through this sometimes elusive healing path. Never blame
yourself! This only bottles up your healing! Yet, on the very bright side, healing from these difficulties
rewards you with incredible strength and wisdom that you could not have develoiped in any other way. And keeping your
body healthy makes a whale of a difference, too!
Therefore, I
want you to be very aware that this SOUL MOVE is not a state of denial, but one of pure, conscious openness and relaxation
in the great kindness that flows through you at every moment. That is where all creation of goodness, relief from blocks,
wonderful connections and honest-to-God manifestations--no matter how huge or small is activated and experienced! Oh,
yes! This is True and this is the real “Secret.”
This is the “SOUL MOVE”! It takes relaxing, not gripping tightly; and it takes raising our energetic vibration. That’s
why we doKundalini Yoga, Meditation and practice our Gurbani prayers to not only get to that state, but to remain there. This is switching quickly to meditative mind,
Cherdi Kala (rising spirit), expansive flow, etc. with a conscious switch, a simple move by employing that amazing and mysterious
long, deep breathing. And you can use any of our powerful meditative technologies as well to power up this simple, relaxing,
but infinitely powerful SOUL MOVE! In addition to daily sadhana (spiritual practice), some of my favorites that loosen
me up to make that quick SOUL MOVE are Heart Breath and Gobinday, Mukunday....
Those of you who
have taken my course INTUITION TRAINING know exactly what I am talking about and have developed the habit of making that move over to your Soul!
This is the real dance of consciousness and creation! Miracles and magic are there waiting for you as you do your
SOUL MOVE! So, you can actually make a habit of happiness that leads to magical productivity, believe me. But
if you are addicted to your hardships, you will avoid this SOUL MOVE until you have finally had enough. It’s then
that you can finally experiment with it.
So, try it for yourself now and see what happens. Your
happiness is a matter of your using your own free will to simply do your SOUL MOVE. And you can do it instantly, all
the time and for no cost. Outrageous! If you are actually honest about wanting a happy, fulfilling
life, and truly want to live your Destiny, then Friends, here’s your ticket. Make the SOUL MOVE!! Be happy!
It’s real!
Copyright, Siri-Gian Khalsa, Soul Answer, 2008.
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Japji
Sahib, The Song of the Soul! #3 July 21, 2001
Two weeks ago, I had the greatest High Time taking the course called “Japji Sahib, The Song of the Soul,”*
presented by Sikh Dharma here in Espanola, NM! We were so fortunate that Ek Ong Kaar Kaur who primarily taught this
very enlightening course based it on her extraordinary translation of Guru Nanak’s most powerful Universal and non-denominational
description of a human’s very most intimate relationship with what we would call the very personal Infinite, the Eternal.
This is the Mystic Union that is described at the core of all paths to the all-pervasive Center!
Guru Nanak
who lived in the 1500’s in northwest India, in what is now Pakistan was not simply a “seeker.” He
was what I would call a “knower” from the very beginning of his life. He traveled extensively throughout
India, the Himalayas, and the Middle East singing his very simple, yet totally profound poetry of the experience of Union
and how to open your self to it. Since he always describes the actual core of spirituality in a very personal yet expansive
way--rather than handing out dogmas or rituals, his message deeply touched people of all religious backgrounds in that very
religiously contentious environment.
Japji Sahib was composed by Guru Nanak. He normally took
his traditional early morning bath and prayer in the river. While bathing on this day, he went into complete God consciousness
and disappeared under the water for three days. All his friends and family thought he was lost. But when Guru
Nanak reappeared, he was totally shining because he had been in a state of sheer ecstasy!
This is when he
wrote Japji Sahib as a description of what he actually experienced in that Infinite consciousness! It has become not
only a spiritual roadmap for us, but the actual experience of reading and listening to these verses either in the original
sound current captured by Gurmukhi, or in your modern day tongue, raises your vibratory rate. Consequently many can
attest to their lives becoming easier, stronger, more supported, happier and more prosperous by participating in this very
special level of operative energy by reading Japji Sahib daily! It is both an instruction and a technology.
Not only have many teachers and scholars from so many different spiritual traditions written extensive commentaries on Japji
Sahib, but it is the first prayer, the foundational core wisdom of the Sikh path.
Thankfully, Yogi Bhajan
worked together with Ek Ong Kaar Kaur on translating this wondrous work. And now this translation of incredible wisdom
is so clear, so Real, so down-to-Earth and so pure! It is so simple and direct that it takes your breath away--right
to the heaven of Truth!
And that Truth is that the God, Who is your Soul is
living as you, and you have but to listen to and join with your easily accessible Soul! As a matter of fact, Pauris
(stanzas) 8, 9, 10, and 11 describe the amazing effects of “Deeply Listening,” and Pauris 12, 13, 14 and 15 give
the promise of what will happen when you “Trust what you hear when you listen!”
For instance,
just let yourself deeply feel the elegant Truth that comes from the immense simplicity of Pauri 15:
In trusting
What you hear
When you listen,
There will be
No obstacles
On your path.
In trusting
What you hear
When you listen,
Radiance and honor
Will be with you.
In trusting
What
you hear
When you listen,
There’ll be no need
To take short-cuts
On your journey.
In trusting what you hear
When you listen,
Dharma,
The path of Divine
Discipline and law,
Will
guide
Your whole life.
Such is
That True Spirit
Within me
That it makes me become
Pure, clear and sweet.
If you
Trust what you hear
When you listen,
That knowing
Becomes
the psyche
Through which you
Reflect, understand
And act.
------------ * “Japji Sahib, Song of the Soul” by Guru Nanak, translated by Ek Ong Kaar Kaur Khalsa; copyright
2004, Ek Ong Kaar Kaur Khalsa.
I know that you will be so happy if you get Ek Ong Kaar Kaur’s
translation of Japji Shaib to read regularly. Click here to order it. And you can get a beautiful selection
of 5 different recitations of Japji on a 2 CD set by Guru Raj Kaur. They are varied so that you can easily listen to
and learn to recite this beautiful prayer yourself. Click here to order it.
Ek Ong Kaar Kaur’s courses coming up!
So, please keep on the lookout for a chance to take her courses! Click here to get more information, and then you can save this web page to get future events.
Japji Sahib, The Song of the Soul--A Workshop
She
just finished teaching this course in Toronto over this past weekend, and is scheduled to teach it again in Thailand Oct.
28-Nov. 1 as part of the Kundalini Yoga Asia Festival.
Guru Amar Das’ Anand Sahib, The Song of
Bliss Workshop. This is an equally wonderful course on another spiritual
prayer/teaching that she also translated. I had the good fortune to take this course over a number of Saturday mornings
at her home here in Espanola! Each of the Pauris gives instruction for one’s spiritual develop each year of their
life from birth through 39 years old. Quite amazing! She is teaching this on Sept. 4-5 in Crestone, CO, and Nov.
9-19 on a truly magical tour, The Bliss Yantra in northern India!
And of course, if you would like to host
either of her courses, you can contact her at ekongkaar@sikhdharma.org .
Lots of Love,
Siri-Gian
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